The Best of the Mommy Blogs

It's not your mother's motherhood....
When you're wide awake at 3 in the morning, convinced no baby has ever screamed as loud as yours, it's good to know there's another mom just a click away who has been there, survived that, and written a hilarious blog about it. The new book Sleep Is for the Weak, edited by Rita Arens of surrenderdorothyblog.com, excerpts some of the best of the so-called mommy blogs. More than 20 moms fess up about everything from parenting insecurities to taking your son along to your gyno appointment. "Blogging is a virtual support group if you allow yourself to be honest," says Arens. Check out some of our favorite mom musings from the book

"After my daughter soaks her sheets, she stumbles sleepily into our bed and falls asleep. Near morning, as we're all slumbering peacefully, she pees on us. Y'all, may I just say, I am tired of the pee."
- Sheryl Patten, papernapkin.typepad.com

"My daughter doesn't have to love me (though, yes, I know she does), but I do love her, and that is what matters. Her returning my feelings is a bonus, but it is not compulsory."
- Tracey Gaughran-Perez, sweetney.com

"When I'm stressed out...I conjure up myself at age 55, and she tells me to relax. 'One day,' she whispers, 'when you're an empty nester and your life is predictable, quiet, and completely your own, you'll miss this chaos. You'll miss it terribly.'"
- Risa Green, mommytrackd.com

Click on the Amazon link above to order a copy of Sleep Is For The Weak.

If you are a blogger or just a blog reader.. Order your copy today! Take your bloggy reads with you while you sit in the car waiting to pick up the kids from school, sneak in a page or two while the kids are napping in the car ( I have a whole stash of magazines & books in my car and added this to my collection) or take along while you travel...this would make a fun plane ride read. The holidays are just around the corner...This book would make a perfect holiday gift for your favorite blogger.

Enjoy!

Blog Day- August 31st

Are you a blogger? Are you ready to be part of something big? Do you want to leave a mark on the face of the earth?

CELEBRATE THE 4th Annual Blog Day ON AUGUST 31st

What is Blog Day?
BlogDay was created with the belief that bloggers should have one day dedicated to getting to know other bloggers from other countries and areas of interest. On that day Bloggers will recommend other blogs to their blog visitors. With the goal in mind, on this day every blogger will post a recommendation of 5 new blogs. This way, all blog readers will find themselves leaping around and discovering new, previously unknown blogs.

What will happen on Blog Day?
one long moment on August 31st, bloggers from all over the world will post recommendations of 5 new Blogs, preferably Blogs that are different from their own culture, point of view and attitude. On this day, blog readers will find themselves leaping around and discovering new, unknown Blogs, celebrating the discovery of new people and new bloggers.

BlogDay posting instructions:
Find 5 new Blogs that you find interesting
Notify the 5 bloggers that you are recommending them as part of BlogDay 2008
Write a short description of the Blogs and place a link to the recommended Blogs
Post the BlogDay Post (on August 31st) and
Add the BlogDay tag using this link: http://technorati.com/tag/BlogDay2008and a link to the BlogDay web site at http://www.blogday.org/

Blog On!

Back to School Hair Bow Contest

Wow! We had such an amazing response to this contest that our friends from Fancy Schmancy Stuff have offered to give 3 bows away.
The lucky winners are... R.Hagan, C. Raysor, and M. Root!
Congratulations Ladies!

Plain Jane Labor Day Sale!

128 East Gay St.
West Chester, PA 19380
610.918.0230

25% OFF EVERYTHING!!!

That's right! Plain Jane is offering 25% off their entire stock in honor of Labor Day! This promotion ends Sunday 8/31 Mention this Chester County Moms Blog for the sale!

Don't forget that Wednesday night from 6-8PM Plain Jane is offering FREE mini-makeovers. Stop by, get all glammed up then hit the town for drinks & dinner. The perfect Moms Night Out!

Cheap School Supplies

Good Day Philadelphia on FOX 29 had a segment on this morning on where to find cheap school supplies. I found this information on their website and thought I would share these amazing deals. If you know of another back to school item on sale and not included on this list please leave a comment or email us at jenn@chestercountymoms and we will add it to the list.

1 pack of 24 count Crayola Crayons - 22 cents at Target
3 SPIRAL NOTEBOOKS - Found at Walmart for 5 cents each
(or COMPOSITION NOTEBOOKS - Found at Target for 50 cents each)
4 2-POCKET FOLDERS - Found at Staples for 15 cents each
1 DOZEN PENCILS - Found at Staples* for FREE!
1 LARGE PENCIL ERASER - Found at Target for 69 cents
1 BOX COLORED PENCILS - Found at Target for 89 cents
1 DOZEN PENS - Found at Dollar Store for $1 or at Staples - Two 8 packs for 50 cents each
2 GLUE STICKS - Three pack found at Dollar Store for $1
1 PLASTIC PENCIL CASE - Found at Staples for 50 cents
1 RULER - Found at Staples* for FREE!
1 3-RING LOOSE LEAF BINDER - Found at Staples for 25 cents
1 PACK LOOSE-LEAF PAPER - Found at Staples for 79 cents
1 BOX REINFORCEMENTS - Found at Walmart for $1.88
1 PACK OF DIVIDERS - Found at Target for 87 cents
FREE LIBRARY OF PHILADELPHIA LIBRARY CARD - FREE!
1 TI34ii CALCULATOR - Found online at mediamegamall.com for $16.49
1 SCHOOL BAG - Found at Toys "R" Us for $9.99 and came with FREE lunchbox!

*Click here to view Staples weekly FREE Back to School promotion

L'il Darlins

Mother knows best and that’s exactly what the founders of L’il Darlins, LLC are banking on. They are revolutionizing the infant & toddler market with the coolest and most practical must-have accessories for any baby.

Leslie Smith teamed up with her mother, Jeanne Roth, to create this ground-breaking company that caters to the trendy moms and children of the world. Jeanne brings her many of years of business expertise and Leslie offers her knowledge as a school teacher. Both are creative and detail oriented-leading to their successful company. Plus, talking about keeping it in the family, this mother-daughter duo tests all their children's specialty items on Leslie's three daughters-who just happen to be Jeanne's 'Lil Darlins.'

L'il Darlins offers a one stop shop of fashionable and functional must-haves for moms and infants & toddlers. This precious online boutique, launched by the mother-daughter team, is now adding mommy essentials to its collection of pint-sized gear and goodies! L'il Darlins' brand new Nurse Purse ™ gives breastfeeding moms on the go a convenient and discreet way to store their nursing gear-and look trendy at the same time!

For infants & toddlers, L'il Darlins' full body Bib-A-Roo™ has your messy little eater covered from their chest to their ankles. The Bib-A-Roo™ prevents stains and protects those designer duds! Also part of L'il Darlins unique collection are their specially contoured, embroidered Burpee™ Cloths that never fall onto the floor because they're curved to stay in place on mom or dad's shoulder.

L'il Darlins has exclusively offered Chester County Moms blog readers a 15% discount on all their products! Enter CCMOM15 on their website when ordering. Happy Shopping!

Dancing With The Stars - New Cast Revealed...

- Kim Kardashian: Paris Hilton's former BFF, this 27-year-old is now more well-known for her E! reality show, Keeping Up With the Kardashians — and her famous booty.
- Lance Bass: The former *NSYNC member, 29, came out of the closet in 2006. His autobiography, Out of Sync, was a New York Times bestseller.
- Cloris Leachman: The 82-year-old starred on the Facts of Life, which aired from 1979 to 1988, The Mary Tyler Moore Show and Phyllis.
- Ted McGinley: The 50-year-old actor played neighbor Marcy D'Arcy's husband on Married…With Children, and also starred on Hope & Faith from 2003 to 2006.
- Brooke Burke: Now a mother of four, Burke hosted E! party show Wild On from 1999 to 2002.
- Toni Braxton: The "Un-Break My Heart" singer, 41, has won six Grammy Awards, and sold over 40 million records.
- Misty May-Treanor: The 33-year-old won gold in beach volleyball (with partner Kerri Walsh) at the 2008 Beijing Olympics.
- Maurice Green: Green, 34, is a two-time Olympic gold medalist sprinter. He once held the world record for the 100m, with a time of 9.79 seconds.
- Jeffrey Ross: Dubbed the "Meanest Man in Comedy" by New York magazine, this stand-up comedian, 39, has hosted roasts for Donald Trump, Drew Carey and Hugh Hefner.
- Rocco DiSpirito: The former Manhattan chef, 41, became a household name thanks to his temper tantrums on 2003 show, The Restaurant.
- Warren Sapp: This defensive tackle, 35, played professional football for 13 years, both on the Tampa Bay Buccaneers and Oakland Raiders.
- Cody Linley: The 18-year-old played Miley Cyrus' beau on Hannah Montana, and acted in kid's movie Hoot. He's the youngest contestant ever to appear on the show.
- Susan Lucci: The actress, 61, has played diva Erica Kane on soap opera All My Children for 38 years.

Shine up your dance shoes...The seventh season premieres September 22 at 8PM

C. Raysor Photography- Hot Deal!

Chrissie Raysor from C. Raysor Photography got in touch with us to let us know that she is offering a special sale just for the readers of the Chester County Mom's blog! Contact her before Sept 15, 2008 to book a session, mention the Chester County Moms site, and you'll get half off the session fee AND a $25 print credit to use with your order! Your session doesn't have to happen by Sept 15, you just have to contact her by then! Email her at info@craysor.com to schedule a photo shoot!"

Back To School Tips

It's that time of year again -- back to school! If you've got a house full of moans and groans over the prospect, try using some of these great tips for making the transition for sleepy summers smooth.

Two weeks before school starts

• Get your child to open up about his expectations for school. Ask him if he feels excited, anxious, or a little bit of both. Talk with him about specific worries he has for the upcoming year.
• Explain the upcoming school routine in detail. Go over your child’s schedule, including the times by which he’ll need to wake up, eat breakfast, and be ready to leave the house. Have a couple practice runs beforehand.
  
• Make the transition from summer to school bedtimes by starting your kids going to bed fifteen minutes earlier each night about two weeks before school, with no more staying up until ten or eleven o’clock at night.
• With your child’s help, brainstorm and come up with a list of his favorite lunches and snacks to pack for school in order to make grocery shopping easier and for quick reference on school nights.

A Week Before School Starts

• Make sure your child feels comfortable with how he will be getting to school. Drive the bus route with him, walk with him to school the first week, or find an older child to walk with him. Review safety precautions regarding traffic and strangers.
• Make back-to-school shopping into a special outing that includes lunch for just the two of you.
• Store out-of-season and dress clothes where your child doesn’t see them to avoid fights over wearing a party dress to school or a bathing suit all day.
• Put away your child’s clothes in matching sets, and let him have the independence of choosing which set he’ll wear that day.
• Make sure your child is comfortable using the school’s bathrooms by himself, and choose school clothes that are easy for your child to pull on and off himself. Opt for elastic waists over zippers or snaps.

The Night Before/First Day of School

• Take pictures, and pick one spot to do this each year, such as the front porch or steps.
• Make a big family sit-down dinner the night before or after the first day. Talk through some of the highlights of the summer and state one goal for the coming school year.
• Pack all the items you and your child need for work, school, or day care and load the car. If that’s not feasible, place coats, bags, and lunch boxes by the door.
• Pack lunches and refrigerate sandwiches — sometimes this is easiest to do while making dinner. Put your car keys with the sandwiches if it helps your remember to add the sandwiches to lunch boxes in the morning, or put a note on the lunch box to remind you.
• Start the school year off right by making the first day something to celebrate. Have a big breakfast, decorate the kitchen, serve a favorite meal, and hand out new lunch boxes or school supplies.
• Bake your child a batch of his favorite cookies as something to look forward to after the stress of the first day.
• Pack something familiar in your child’s backpack to make him feel more comfortable, and something new to make him feel special.
• Make up a goodbye ritual. Don’t sneak away, even if you’re tempted to avoid a big teary scene. Give a hug, a kiss, and a warm but firm goodbye. Don’t ask for your child’s permission to leave, return after you’ve left if you hear your child cry, or bribe your child into letting you leave.
• Tape a picture of yourself and your partner near your child’s coat hook or cubby area. Your child will be able to take a peek at Mom and Dad whenever she likes.

It's Cake Time!

I would like to give a big Thank You to Cake Time, for the delicious ice cream cake for my sons jungle themed first birthday.

What is Cake Time? Cake Time is a site developed for parents by parents to help ease the stress of planning and organizing parties and activities so that you can...

• Search for venues that can host your party!
• Have a cake delivered to any location -- your home, your workplace or any party venue!
• Submit a review of places you've been to help build our party planning resource!

Click Here to be directed to Cake Time or visit them at www.caketime.com

Powder Hour at Plain Jane in West Chester

Mark your calendar ladies...August 27th... Plain Jane Powder Hour is Back!

From 6 - 8PM at Plain Jane located at 128 E Gay St, West Chester, PA...
Free makeovers and champagne! What a fun girls night out! Get all glammed up then hit the town and go out for dinner.

Remember you can always book your own girl's night "powder hour" by calling 610-918-2030

Save The Date...

Chester County Moms has partnered with Elite Personal Training Studio for a "Sweat & Swag" event on Saturday, September 6th. Join us for a FREE Boot Camp work out from 8am - 9am. Elite Personal Training Center is located at 571 West Uwchlan Avenue (Rt. 113), Exton, PA.

Elite Personal Training hosts a Boot Camp work out EVERY Saturday morning... a perfect playgroup "Mommy Only" event. (hint, hint). All profits are donated to Alex's Lemonade Stand. The work out is FREE but a $5 donation to Alex's Lemonade Stand is encouraged.

The first 30 people to register will receive a Boot camp T-shirt and a "swag" bag full of coupons and goodies from Chester County businesses.... Elite Personal Training Studio, My Gym Children's Center, Wegman's, and Classy Mommy... just to name a few.

We are also going to raffle off a Graco Enzo Compact Stroller as well as several other goodies. So mark your calendar and come out and sweat the morning away with us and support Alex's Lemonade Stand.

To register please email sweatandswag@gmail.com. Register today to secure your swag!


**If you are a business owner and interested in donating a raffle item or coupon to your business for the swag bags please email jenn@chstercountymoms.com

Musings From A Housewife Give Away

Jo-Lynne at Musings of a Housewife has an awesome give away going on for a handcrafted piece of jewelry from Swede at Heart.
She is picking a winner on Thursday so head on over to her blog and enter today.

Shore Shot Photo Contest

So...you have done the family vacation to the shore.. Submit your "Shore Shot" photos to NBC 10 and enter to win a free gas card and a two night stay in an Atlantic City hotel and go on a "Mom-cation".

NBC 10 is looking for the most creative and clearest photos, so send in your best! One winner will be chosen each week.

Click here to see the official contest rules and submit your "Shore Shot" photo.

NBC 10 - All That & More Sweepstakes

All That & More has some great prizes to give away for parents and their kids. Are you looking for tickets to see The Wiggles, tickets to Sesame Place, and stuffed animals for the kids? Or maybe you just had a baby and need a diaper bag or baby carrier. Well... you can win some of these fabulous prizes on All That & More. The Kidz Sweepstakes runs until August 26th!
Click here to enter and remember, you can enter once a day to better your chances of winning!

I entered the Kidz Sweepstakes Contest on NBC 10's All That & More Website yesterday for Wiggle's tickets and just received a call saying we won! Woo-hoo! I won 4 tickets to the show tomorrow night...the hottest ticket in town! I am so excited! Stay tuned for pictures.
Thank You.. NBC 10 & All That & More!


Besides the awesome Kidz Sweepstakes going on right now there is lots of important consumer information on the All That & More web page.....Information regarding, the mortgage crisis. The probelm was so bad last month that, the president signed legislation aimed at helping struggling homeowners who find themselves trapped in the foreclosure process. It's also providing free help. Click here for tips on facing and surviving foreclosure, housing agency contact information, and more.

There is a 4 minute workout that some say can reverse scoliosis in children, which is a condition that causes a young person's spine to curve. Click here for complete info.

Classy Mommy Weekly Giveaway Round-Up

Thanks to the Chester County Moms for letting Classy Mommy share our fantastic giveaways with our local neighbors!

We've got a ton of DVD's this week. Enter to win Smart People and Backyardigans DVDs here. Classy Mommy has daily entry giveaways so you can increase your chance of winning by visiting more often. You'll also find these giveaways still open: a cheeky modern monkey Dante Beatrix backpack, Strawberry Shortcake DVD, and Thomas & Friends The Great Discovery DVD.


Good Luck!

FREE Boot Camp Workout

Looking to shed the last of your "baby weight"? Join Matt Sgro, the owner of Elite Personal Training in Lionville for a FREE outdoor workout this Saturday morning from 8-9am at Elite Personal Training Studio, 571 W. Uwchlan Ave.(Route 113) Exton, PA 19341. The workout is "Boot Camp" style but, don't worry Matt, promises no in your face yelling just great trainers dedicated to getting you back in shape.

Roll out of bed, come as you are and get a great FREE workout to start off your Saturday. Everyone that participates recieves a FREE Boot Camp T-shirt and can enter to win 1 FREE 1/2 hour personal training session with one of the Elite Personal Training Studio trainers. How cool is that?!?

The Elite Personal Training Studio's Boot Camp with a Purpose donates ALL profits to one of our favorite charities...

The workout is FREE but a $5 donation to Alex's Lemonade Stand is encouraged.


The Chester County Moms team is very excited about the partnership with Elite Personal Training Studio and is putting together a "Sweat & Swag" event on September 6th. You know when we do swag.. we do it big!

Click here to link to the Elite Personal Training Studio Blog.

Hope to see you on Saturday morning...

Tales & Toys Tuesday

My little guys 1st Birthday is coming up so we took a trip to our favorite local toy store, Tales & Toys for him to pick out some toys that he liked for his very own Tales & Toys "Birthday Bin".

What is a "Birthday Bin"? The Birthday Kid gets a "Birthday Bin" with their name written on it and they ( or Mom and Dad) get to go around the store picking gifts for party goers to come in and purchase. When the bin is full it stays at the store and as your party guests come in to shop they are directed to your bin. It takes the guess work out of gift giving. You know that if your child has a "Birthday Bucket" at Tales & Toys they will receive gifts that they really wanted.

100 Ridge Road, Suite 15 • Chadds Ford, PA 19317

610-358-1954

Celebrity spotting in Exton...

Actress Danica McKeller, otherwise known as Winnie Cooper from the Wonder Years, will be holding a book signing starting at 7 pm at the Barnes & Noble in Main Street at Exton tonight promoting her new book, Kiss My Math: Showing Pre-Algebra Who's Boss.

Last year, actress and math genius Danica made waves nationwide, challenging the “math nerd” stereotype and giving girls the tools to ace tests and homework in her unique just-us-girls style. Now, in Kiss My Math, McKellar empowers a new crop of girls—7th to 9th graders—taking on the next level of mathematics: pre-Algebra.

Lands' End Holiday Art Work Contest

Chester County Moms received an email about this really fun contest and we love to share great opportunities with you! So here's another one from one of our favorite brands. This project is both fun for you and your kids and will have you all smiling through the holidays!

It's the Lands' End Holiday Art Contest! This year's theme is "Holiday Fun." What do you do to make it special? Go sledding? Decorate cookies? Trim the tree? Send Lands' End your best holiday drawing and your art could go from your refrigerator to their catalog.

*Artwork must be done vertically on a single 8½" x 11" piece of paper
(no matting).
*Entrants must be 12 years old or younger as of August 14, 2008.
*One entry per child.
*Entries must be postmarked by August 14, 2008.

Winning drawings may be published in the Lands' End Holiday 2008 issue or on the Lands' End Web site. Three prizes will be awarded in each age group: 1 to 6, 7 to 9 and 10 to 12.

The selected artists will receive:
FIRST PRIZE: $500 Lands' End Gift Card
SECOND PRIZE: $250 Lands' End Gift Card
THIRD PRIZE: $100 Lands' End Gift Card

Send artwork and entry form (found at landsend.com/rules) or a 3½" x 5" card with child's name, date of birth, address, telephone number and signature of parent/guardian. Entry form or index card must be signed by a parent or guardian.

Send to:
Lands' End Kids' Art Contest
1 Lands' End Lane
Dodgeville, WI 53595

For a complete set of rules, visit landsend.com/rules. Hope you and your kids enjoy this project and contest!

If Moms Ruled the World...

If Moms Ruled the World There Would Be a Lot Less Bellyaching!
by guest poster YK Wright

I came across and article yesterday about how a recent CareerBuilder.com poll showed that 78 percent of workers feel burned out at work, and it got me thinking. The article notes that 46 percent of workers say their workload has increased over the last six months and approximately the same percentage describe their current workload as heavy or too heavy. I’d argue that my workload has increase over the past six months since having another child. For starters, I now have to do at least one extra load of laundry each week. This includes sorting, folding and putting away. I have an extra bedroom to clean, I wash far more dishes now that we have four mouths eating at each meal, I have more places that I have to take my three-year-old to keep her busy which means more hauling of a 14-month-old, I have one more person who I have to make happy during each waking hour, I have more toys to clean up off the floor, I have double the kisses, hugs, stories and prayers to say each night, there are bigger boo-boos to kiss, more reasoning to be done on a daily basis with people who don’t want to listen to me, and more weight to carry on each arm when getting in and out of the car (36, and 20lbs, respectively).So, do I get a vacation away from my “coworkers” or “employees”? Let me check my calendar. Oh why waste my time. The answer is no. Should I expect more pay? Oh, silly question. So, what does a burned out mom do to stay sane?Actually, I have to admit that I think I am lucky to have an outlet by going to work a few days a week. Others may have differing opinions. When I go to work I get to dress in something other than my usual stained t-shirt and jeans, drink coffee in front of my computer without the fear of second- or third- degree burns occurring at the hand of a 14-month-old, see and speak to other like-minded adults and eat lunch without having to stop 12 times a minute to get a napkin for someone else, wipe their butt after using the potty, refill a sippy cup, cut up more grapes, or wipe up the spilled jelly on the floor. But the bottom line is that I’m still a mom, and there is no escaping that. You get burned out and you have to deal with it. You “rise to the occasion,” do what you have to without complaint and manage as best as you can. We cant just quit. We’re moms and we’re truly blessed by the beautiful gift of of children.The article does offer some advise, however, that applies to all working people; and we all know raising kids is one hell of a job! Here are a few tips which we all can apply to our daily lives:

*Learn to say no. Reduce your commitments both at work and home.

*Get organized. Create a checklist of things that need to be addressed for that day and focus on those tasks only.

*Get plenty of rest, eat a healthy diet and remember to exercise. Working out can significantly reduce stress levels.

*Finally, give yourself a break.So, if life gives you lemons, make lemonade. And P.S. I won’t tell if you add a splash of vodka!

Pictures From The Launch Party

Below are a few pictures from the Chester County Moms Launch Party in West Chester on Swingin" Thursday, August 7th. If you have pictures...we would love to add them to this post. Please email them to Jenn@chestercountymoms.com.

Inside Plain Jane before the party

QVC Personality Diana Urbine and family

The Give - Aways

FREE Art Classes at Exton Square

The Chester County Art Association will hold FREE art classes in their Exton Square Mall Studio during the month of August. The studio is located on the Lower Level near H&M. The August schedule is as follows:

Wednesday, August 6
11:00-12:00 Mommy&Me Houses 5 & Under
12:30-1:30 Tubular Designs 9 & Under
2:00-3:00 Twisted Metal 10 & Older
4:00-6:00 Silk Scarf Painting Adult
(Limited to 12 Students)

Mommy tip... The art classes are lots of fun and the kids get to take home their creations. Get there a few minutes early, space is limited.